"It may seem a strange principle to enunciate as the very first requirement in a hospital that it should do the sick no harm." ~ Florence Nightingale
"By having a reverence for life, we enter into a spiritual relation with the world By practicing reverence for life we become good, deep, and alive." ~ Albert Schweitzer

-from a History of Bethany Hospital by Elet Superada and Romualdo C. Cabalona
When we arrived in Tacloban in 1967, we were following in the footsteps of many great dedicated missionary doctors. Dr. McAnlis, a Presbyterian physician had come to the Philippines in the early 1930's, establishing a hospital in the Albay region. He had been imprisoned with his family in the Santo Tomas and Los Banos camps during WWII, but after the war returned to Leyte to help rebuild Bethany Hospital.
Initially, I think there were high hopes from Dr. Dolorico and his staff, we were the first missionaries sent to Tacloban by the UCCP mission board in many years. It must have been a tremendous letdown when they realized who they had got stuck with. Our family was a twisted combination of those TV families, the Munsters, the Addams and the Clampetts. My parents were loud and boisterous like Granny Clampett and Herman Munster. The shouting, the noisy racket, the menagerie of farm animals, the crazy projects really must have dismayed the refined sensibilities of the hospital director and his wife, who unfortunately lived right behind our house. Looking out from their windows I'm sure they were saying "what the hell are those Americans doing now?!"
Mom worked at the hospital as a nurse. Part of Mom's duties included working on the floating clinic which serviced remote areas not easily accessible by road. The boat would anchor off of fishing villages, they would go in to vaccinate or give check ups. Those that needed x-rays would be brought out to the clinic. When she wasn't doing that she also worked in the ER, the OR a

The hospital raised livestock and grew its own vegetables, had a calamansi orchard and many fruit trees.
The farm foreman gave me my first ride on a carabao. He always had 10 to 20 dogs under his house and they would be different ones month to month. It wasn't till one day we saw him at the meat market selling dogs that we understood why he had so many.
The one place I steered away from was the morgue, it was always very spooky after dark. Auring would tell us horror stories about the dead wandering about looking for bad children. We had a game we played at night where "someone" would have to go and knock on the Morgue door while the rest of us waited a safe distance away. One night the door burst open and an arm reached out and grabbed him! Keith let out a long, high pitched, blood curdling yell and by the time he stopped screaming I was back at home having a snack."Where's your brother?!"
Eaten by the Aswang...
And that is how come I only have three brothers.
(Keith in the meantime made friends with the morgue attendant and soon hung out there all the time)
Mom began helping teenagers go to nursing school and college. Eventually my parents would put over 30 students through college. They would pay the tuition and provide money for textbooks, uniforms and an allowance. Some of these college kids lived with us while others lived with their relatives in Tacloban, the nursing students lived in a dorm on the compound of Bethany Hospital. At our house we had Zenaida, Concepcion, Hermelinda, Tony, Ric and Eddie. There usually were a few more floaters who would stay with us for a while and then move in with other relatives.
All these students needed everyday clothing too, so we acquired a full time seamstress, Mrs. Hinakay. She would show up early Monday morning and stay with us through Friday afternoon, then take the ferry back to Samar for the weekend. She would usually bring one or two of her kids with her for the week, so our working household numbered 14! Mrs. Hinakay would be busy making dresses and blouses, shirts and pants all week long. Mom had relinquished, one by one, the duties and responsibilities of running a household that were typical of an American housewife. Cooking, cleaning, shopping, raising the kids and now she had her own seamstress! Finding clothes that fit Americans was hard in the Philippines, especially so in Tacloban. Mrs. Hinakay provided her with a wide assortment of clothing for every occasion.
(Dad went through a lot of clothes as he was always wearing his dress clothes to work in the garden. Auring would yell at him to change his clothes and make one of the students take out work clothes for him to wear)All of the funding for these students came out of my parents pockets and at times was a real financial burden. Often the needs of the students came before the needs of us kids. So we lived very simply, few luxuries, no TV, no AC. We kids slept on mats on the floor while the students occupied our beds. This was an utang na lo-ob, a debt of obligation the students were keenly aware of and caused them a lot of emotional discomfort, binding them to us tightly. They loved us, comforted us, protected us. They would help us get dressed in the morning, played with us in the afternoons, bathed us and read to us at night.

The doctors and their families and a bevy of nurses that were not on duty would all be there too, unwinding after a weeks work. There always would be lots of music, food, drinks and dancing. The nurses adored and fawned over us kids, setting us on their laps and feeding us. They would practice their English on us and we would correct them as best we could. I reveled in the attention they showered on us.

Every year the hospital hosted a picnic at sea for the for the Floating Clinic staff, crew and their families. One year we went out in to the Surigao Straits and dropped anchor near a sand bar. We just jumped overboard and swam over to the little beach. The water was crystal clear and on one end of the sand bar was the wreck of a landing craft. It was very strange to be on a little spit of sand in the middle of the ocean. It was like being marooned!

The beach house was very close to Red Beach, the site where MacArthur landed. There rusting landing craft and amphibious tanks still rested in the surf. At low tide the pilings of a bombed jetty would appear and start to smoke as the phosphorus from the incendiary bombs would dry out. Soon the water would be covered with a cloud of thick smoke. Then the tide would rise up and the fires would go out. One day Dad waded out with a 5 gallon pail and pried the chunks of phosphorus out of the pilings and placed them in the pail with water. Then one night he arranged the chunks on the concrete wall of our house and we watched as they began to smoke and then burn. Happy New Year! It was fun and exciting! At least it was until the hospital director's wife came over with the fire department to lecture Dad on fire safety!
Thanks -- always look forward to reading another installment -- what a treasure!
ReplyDeleteIt sure takes unusual dedication for people to go on foreign missions/ assignments -- your parents sound a tad more eccentric than mine...
Yes, embarrassingly so!
ReplyDeleteanother lovely account - amazes me how good your memory is Mark. Wish I could meet your parents!!
ReplyDeleteI was a listner and an observer as a child. The Philippine experience was burned in to my hard drive. I used to call it my 10 year vacation. The Philippines was on the cusp of big change, straddling the past and the present. It was so exciting, neon lights and carratellas, ocean liners and bancas... remember the big neon "animated" Jai Alai sign in Manila? Do you remember Erehwon Bookstore?
ReplyDeleteT'is the best so far!
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